Thanks for sticking around through all of the Amelia based
topics on this blog. Today’s is no
different. Right now, Amelia is
dominating the blog. I don’t know
whether to say “you’re welcome” or to apologize. This particular entry is one that I have been
thinking about a good bit over the course of Amelia’s life.
When you have a baby, you expect to be able to meet all of
their needs with no trouble. There is
more than you could possibly want to read about breastfeeding versus formula
feeding out there in the world. So, I’m
not going to rant about that, except to say that often, it is a much more
complicated decision than it seems. That
decision started this train of thought.
The bottom line is that there is a significant difference between eating
and eating well.
Amelia is in the process of learning to eat table food
without the safety net of formula feedings throughout the day. She is moving towards drinking milk instead
and is learning to use a cup rather than her beloved bottle. We’re not in a hurry, but it’s time. Amelia is learning what she likes, what she
doesn’t like and is mostly being a good sport about eating enough and eating
variety.
Earlier in her life, it was a different story. She has always been healthy and never had
nearly as much trouble as so many other babies out there face. However, eating was not always comforting or easy
for her. It’s not my intent here to go
into all of those details, but just to say that Amelia is learning how to eat
well. She’s learning to enjoy
eating.
Eating, while obviously a part of every person’s daily life,
is a subject of incredible controversy.
We berate each other and ourselves over our decisions of how to feed our
children. We have few healthy, cheap
options in our society and at the same time, we participate in
“fat-shaming.” On top of all of that,
people are going hungry all over the world.
I don’t have the answers.
I don’t know how to stop world hunger or how to fix childhood obesity or
type 2 diabetes or even bullying; but I do know that I can teach Amelia how to
enjoy eating. I can teach her that her
worth is not related to her weight. I
can teach her how to be healthy. I can do what I can to help eradicate hunger
and in so doing, teach Amelia that if those who have more than enough would
share a little, there would be enough for all.
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